If you’re currently looking for love, but aren’t quite able to attract the one, then you might be wondering what you’re missing, or what those other people have that you don’t have?
Truth is, sometimes it can take a while to meet somebody who’s right for you. To have the perfect partner, you’ve got to find someone that you’re physically attracted to, with whom you have something in common, who’s at the same stage in their life and want’s the same things as you… and of course, they’ve gotta be single… ideally…
That’s a pretty tall order!
But if you’re finding yourself going on lots of dates, but it never really works out quite the way you want it to, then you might be asking yourself, “what’s the matter with me”?
Let’s get this straight, there’s nothing the matter with you. However, if you’re looking for some hints on how to improve your game, then here are the most attractive qualities that people commonly look for in a love interest.
This Is What People Find Most Attractive In A Partner
You know those people who aren’t necessarily the best looking physically but they just have something, that makes them alluring…. yeah, that something is confidence.
Nothing is more attractive to a prospective love interest than self assurance, self-esteem and a sense that you’re completely comfortable in who you are.
That’s why so many girls go for the cocky bad-boy type. I’m not saying being an ass makes you more attractive, but if you’re confident in yourself then others are going to pick up on it and will be automatically drawn to you as a result.
If you’re looking for tips on how to improve your own sense of self confidence, then check out 9 Surprising Habits Of Naturally Confident People.
It’s no secret that one of the many key’s to a long-lasting, happy relationship is loyalty from both sides.
This doesn’t just mean faithfulness – although that’s obviously a massive factor – but feeling like your partner has your back, they’ll support your decisions and wishes, and they’ll always be in your corner to fight for you is a huge turn-on to most.
Everyone wants someone to listen to them. People want to feel heard and appreciated by anyone that’s important to them, but particularly by their significant other.
Take the time to listen to your other half, be a shoulder to cry on, offer support and advice where needed and just be the person that your loved one can talk to about anything without fear of being judged.
A sense of humour can get you anywhere.
Making people laugh will not only boost your confidence and make you feel happier yourself, but it’ll make people want to be around you.
Being known as the funniest person in the room is one of the biggest compliments you can be given, and humour is a gift that you should share with anyone you can. If you’re known as the one who puts a smile on people’s faces, you’ll have the pick of the bunch when it comes to dating opportunities.
It might sound obvious, but people don’t want to spend time with negative people.
There’s a big difference between going through a tough time and feeling down for a while, and being a naturally negative person.
If you notice that you’re always a glass half full kinda person, you’re always noticing the bad in people and gossiping about others, then stop yourself in your tracks, as it’s a serious turn-off to others.
If positivity doesn’t come naturally to you, practice makes perfect. Try to focus on and talk about only the good things that have been going on in your life, take an interest in others and over time you’ll get better at seeing the good in situations over the bad.
Note – if you’re struggling with mental health and depression, that’s a totally separate issue and you should always talk to a professional or a loved one about anything that’s bothering you. I’m only talking about surface level negativity in the above point.
Be kind to those around you, and people will like you – obviously.
Lend a helping hand, be a shoulder to cry on and do things purely out of the kindness of your heart, and people will notice. Be kind for no reason, and don’t expect kindness back in return.
Do nice things without any ulterior motive, and not only will you feel more fulfilled and happy as a person overall, but kindness will come back your way and potential love interests will naturally be drawn to you.
A SENSE OF ADVENTURE
People love a bit of excitement. If you have a fun-loving nature, you’re going to find it easy to make friends and form a romantic relationships.
Having a sense of adventure is what keeps life interesting, and it’s what pushes us to seek new opportunities, experiences and encourages us to meet new people.
Not only will having a fun loving nature help you to actually meet someone if you’re looking for love, but it’s what will keep the flame lit for many years to come.
To Finish Off…
I really hope you enjoyed this post and that I’ve pointed out a few ways that you might be able to improve your mindset if you’re currently looking for someone special.
Make sure to leave a comment below letting me know what you think is the most attractive quality in a prospective partner, and check back here again soon as I post brand new fashion, lifestyle and personal development tips on The Angelina Archives every single week!